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Anna-Maria Lenz's avatar

„Three“ brought tears in my eyes. I think I read the last paragraph at least five times in a row. Thank you for this, we need more of that!!

Taissia B's avatar

Beautiful. "The present never left" is a good reminder that the present is all we really have, for a moment at a time.

frdysk's avatar

this speaks volumes of nostalgia to me, never easy to be vulnerable and honest, i tried to write something about me that's adjacent to this, and i thought maybe publishing might make it easier because i don't have to throw my face around irl, but it's never easy to express it in words, your article however, is beautiful

Leslie Boies's avatar

Yes to more losses in later years. They soften and tenderize me.

Rubi's avatar

I’ve never been a visual artist in the way of painting or drawing but your visuals are so beautiful it inspires me to try

Victoria Lee's avatar

thank you for writing, i always leave less numb. somehow you know exactly how to place a feeling in my heart. i grew up in a new england suburb too; maybe that's part of it. :) this one was my favorite:

"The effort we extend to know what the other loves: this is adding up to something, I believe this."

Shivam Rawat's avatar

reading this as a new grad Minervan hits hard. love your work Shani!

iris's avatar

felt so much at once while i read this & i think that’s what the best kind of writing does

Velea Fern Shulman's avatar

This speaks of love.

Deep and knowing.

Lasting.

The Moments.

It is painful as hell, and heavenly beautiful.

Thank you💛

Anthea Taeuber's avatar

i love your writing. it’s captivating. and comforting. 🫂

Urooba's avatar

omg i cried 😭😭 I wrote to my roommate after reading this thankyou !!

namrata 's avatar

Very moving for me to read this and where I happen to be right now in my journey of life. Thank you for writing and sharing this.

Kei's avatar

It was so beautiful. Honestly, it felt like my soul became a little lighter.

MBKA's avatar

Unfortunately accurate.

Kathryn Lambert's avatar

Beautiful. Feels so poignant to me.